Safety

Safety comes with every chat

A good conversation needs two people who feel comfortable. Here is how the rules and tools work, and how to protect yourself.

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Adults only

Chat With Women is for adults 18+. You can end any chat instantly, report or block anyone who breaks the rules, and you do not need to share your name, number or address to start.

Chat With Women is for people 18 and older. By using the site you confirm you are an adult. Accounts that appear to belong to minors should be reported so they can be reviewed.

Read the full community guidelines and terms of service before your first chat.

Respect and consent

A chat with women online only works when both people want to be there. Flirting is part of the fun — pressure is not.

  • Ask, do not assume. If you want to take the conversation somewhere more personal, check she is comfortable first.
  • No means no. If she changes the subject or says she is not interested, respect it and move on.
  • No recording. Never record or screenshot someone without their permission.
  • No harassment. Insults, threats and hateful language are not allowed.

If a chat feels wrong

You are always in control of your side of the conversation:

  • Leave. End the chat at any moment. You do not owe anyone an explanation.
  • Report. If someone breaks the rules, report them from the conversation.
  • Block. Block a person and they will not reach you again.

For account questions or anything else, visit the help center. New to video chat? Start with our first-timer's guide.

Protecting your privacy

A 1-on-1 video chat is private, but the other person can still see and hear everything on your side. A few habits go a long way:

  • Keep your full name, address, workplace and social media accounts to yourself until you really trust someone.
  • Check what is visible behind you — mail, documents or a window with a recognizable view.
  • Remember that anyone can take a photo of their own screen. Only show what you would be comfortable with being saved.

See our privacy policy for how the site handles your data.

Avoiding scams

Getting FaceTime calls from numbers you do not know? See what random FaceTime calls usually are.

Romance scams usually follow a pattern: fast affection, a reason to move the chat to another app, then a request for money, gift cards or crypto. The US Federal Trade Commission lists these warning signs in its guide on what to know about romance scams.

The simple rule: never send money, gift cards or crypto to someone you met in a video chat, and never share passwords or verification codes — no matter how good the story is.

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